Separation Anxiety
One of the key issues for you to think about prior to the first day of camp is “Whose separation anxiety is it?” As a parent I can honestly say that looking back it was often times my anxiety, not my child’s, which made separating difficult. Frankly, I was disappointed when one of my children went off happily to her first dance class. I thought, what’s wrong with me that it is so easy for her to leave? Why can’t she cry like the other kids?
I also worried about the adults in whose care I was leaving my child. What was their training? Would they be as patient and caring as I would want them to be? How would I know what was going on when I was gone? Was I ready to have my child experience something new without me? Take a few moments to think about what feelings separating raises for you. Rest assured that the Summer Mini Camp staff will share with you, in writing, an account of what your child does each day. Feel free to call the Museum at 508-230-3789 and have a member of the Museum’s staff check in on you child.
After you have considered your feelings, talk to your child about his or her feelings about camp. Listen to your child’s concerns and address them honestly. It is best to let your child know in advance that you will not be staying at camp. Tell your child where you will be, talk about how long the camp day will be, and assure your child that you will return at the end of the session (or let them know who will be picking them up).
When you arrive be prepared to say good-bye quickly. Lingering outside makes separating more difficult for everyone. Be ready to say good-bye at the door, a staff member will help your child to become involved in one of the table activities. In addition, you may want to consider one of these strategies which have proved successful in the past:
· Give your child a kiss on a piece of paper to keep in his/her pocket.
· Give your child a task to work on such as draw me a picture today, learn a new song to sing on the way home, etc.
· Give your child permission to have fun
Remember that separation issues are common at this age. Please feel free to discuss any concerns that you have with a staff member. Mini Camp is a terrific opportunity for you and your child to become comfortable separating, we’re here to help you.
